POLL: What do you think about this spoiled “adult?”?
By Contributor • Jan 20th, 2011 • Category: Family
Question by i got BUSTED by Dr. Phil™: POLL: What do you think about this spoiled “adult?”?
my older sister (19, i’m 16) always takes my stuff. she
just took my bathingsuit a friend gave me and threw one
of hers in my room and said “i’m trading you” when i want
the one a friend gave me, not her old one.
and she took my flip flops, when i only had 2 pairs and she
has like 10 pairs, and said they were now hers.
and when we went down the shore, she spent my money
and won’t give me back my money, saying “it’s only 3
dollars” and yesterday when my mom gave her money to
go to the store to buy her something, she kept the change
and said “it’s a tip” even when my mom asked for it back.
and she said that she needs to “save her money” when she
doesn’t even do anything with it. she only has a job babysitting
3 times a week, and not even every week.
and she sleeps a lot and when i’m sleeping, she thinks
she can just wake me up and start telling me to take the
dog out or something.
and she complains a lot and seriously, acts like a 9 year
old. she annoys me, instead of the regular older-younger
sister thing.
oh yeah, thanks.
she’s a lot more than that,
so why not vent?
better than keeping things inside.
::rolls eyes::
my door doesn’t even close all the way.
i have to put a box of movies in front of
it so it’s all the way shut.
so can’t lock it and the lock doesn’t even
work anyway.
Best answer:
Answer by tay lew
wow. she’s nineteen? if you hadn’t told me her age, i would have thought she was ten, or some age near that.
she needs to grow up. and you need to put a lock on your door. haha
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Sounds like you have a jerk for a sister… But why you wrote all that and put it on the internet that kinda makes you a jerk
Yeah, your sis is spoiled alright. She’s not acting like a very good big sister, is she? If she’s the older one, she should be handing stuff down to you, not taking your stuff away. That’s low down.
You should talk to your parents about this. Tell them they should be more strict, and maybe your parents should make her get a real job. If she tries to steal your things, just say no or hide them. IF she steals them, then steal them right back!
Get a lock on your door, go into her room and take all your stuff out and put it in your room. Move your stuff to places she can’t find it, don’t lend her any money or ANYTHING.
If your 19 year old sister can fit into a 16 year old’s swimsuit then she’s obviously lacking in the puberty department. Maybe her sense of maturity will kick in when her boobs arrive.
Some adult in the family needs to put some manners on her…she is selfish, thoughtless, and nasty. If she wont listen to you then talk to your mother about her bad behaviour. if none of that works…then take matters into your own hands….in other word ..do to her what she does to you. She behaves like that because …she can
tell your mom or dad
or tell her to grow up and get a job and if she doesnt listen just tell her to quit being a b itch and acting like a fu8cked up know it all
I think you should place all bits of your items in your room, install a lock(which is what I did)–>it’s really very simple, just go to your local Home depot and get a cheap lock that has a key. That way you can lock your room and key it closed when your gone.
This way your sister can’t wake you up either in the morning if your door is locked. If she wants you to walk the dog, then she’ll have to knock on the door. Don’t respond and completely ignore the door, after a few times she won’t try to come wake you up again. It’ll be a waste of her energy.
I Don’t think she’s a spoiled “adult”, I think she’s an intolerable individual. With a little ignoring she’ll learn that her behaviour is unacceptable.
Don’t give her money and don’t lend her anything. Inform her that she’s untrustworthy because of past complications when you lent your things out and they never returned.
—Sorry, that’s the best I could do> as I myself am still setting out to find methods in order to control my older brothers nasty attitudes.
EDIT—
I read what the person below me said…I believe he doesn’t understand…being a younger sibling is much different then being an older one. When your an older sibling you have to be a role model and tolerate because the younger sibling hasn’t had enough experience. In your case, and in mine, we have to put them in their place. Otherwise we would hate being home, as soon as you get older you will want to escape and be with your friends as often as possible so you wouldn’t have to deal with their act of superiority. Your sister isn’t trying to be like you out of cuteness, she’s bullying you.
I think the biggest life lesson here is not to be bullied. Otherwise it may desensitize you to being bullied by others in your life as well. I saw that happening to me, So I took a stance. I wish I did it earlier…So all i can do is pass on my experience to another fellow younger sibling so we can make life a little more tolerable:) We got to stick together.
PS: you can get a handyman to fix it ASAP, or, once you get the package for a new lock, it’s an entirely new door handle they’ll have brand new everything. It’s really easy to set up by yourself.
I am sorry to say your life is going to be sh*t with her being able to go in and out of your room and being able to access all of your stuff. You should not have to hide your things or lock your draws and door. Look it could be worse. Hopefully she will go off to college soon. If she does you will miss her but you will have everythng to yourself. Trust me that sounds good but it is not so good. An older syster cnbe as horrible as a younger brother without conscience.
There were things my younger brother did like crawled into my bed pretendng to be me because I would sleep in the sofa bed when my gf visited. Disconnected the spark plug from my Honda motor cycle so that I would get a cab to clsses while he took if for a joy ride with his friend.He would wear my clothes which I prepared 5 days in advance.
I would start on monday and he will start on friday and replaced it back in my closet as if nothing was touched. By the time I got to Wednesdy all my clothes for the week was worn. We were the same size weight and hight one year apart.
Everything I had was his to use miss use and abuse and all my parents said was use his things too. Work it out between you. .I did not like his things he hd weird taste in clothing. He wore very thing that belonged to me. Even under clothing, socks and shoes. He just knew instinctivelly how to get the better of me.
I left and went to college and I felt sorrry for him, he just had to depend upon himself and he was lost.
You may be the younger sister but your tollerance will orepare you for life . Your older sister will find out life is not all taking, it is giving you have done that giving in to her she will learn all the world is not made up if younger sisters and mothers.
Hang in there pumpkin. She is preparing you for life.
Be there for her later she will need u. do not Lock your things and hide . This makes it hands off but then you seem like the bad guy